What if you could...
STOP wasting your time and your heart on men who will never commit, have your back or make you his #1 ? 
What if you could...
See the signs of a great potential mate right away so you know who to share time with, and who to run from?
What if you could...
Always feel appreciated, understood, and desireable instead of hurt, confused and unworthy of love? 
You deserve to love and be loved every day of your life...and you WILL be 

All you need is a well-calibrated Man Picker!
(Which means you choose men with your Grownup smarts, not your 
25-year-old fluttering heart.)
How do you know if your man-picker is broken?

You seem to always get dumped or your guys disappear…your picker is broken.

You attract me-me-me narcissist types…your picker is broken.

You're dating but not interested in any of the men you meet...your picker is broken. 

You're convinced there are no good men or all men are jerks…your picker is broken.

You fall in love with men you wish would change....your picker is broken.

You keep falling for men who don’t fall for you…..your picker is broken.

You are single and don’t want to be but can't figure out why...your picker is broken.

And, lastly, if you aren’t meeting ANYONE because you're not dating at all, your picker may be completely out of commission!

Already know this is for you?
Imagine yourself in a loving, fun, secure relationship with a man you know loves you. Seriously...try it now. 

Close your eyes...and think of being LOVED AND IN LOVE with Your Special Man.

How do you feel?



Deeply connected?

Like he knows you – the real you – and he sees how special you are?

Do you feel safe...knowing you finally have someone YOU can count on and who will treasure you as his #1...for life?

Damn! Where is That Guy??? 

You’ve been looking for him, but...

instead, you're meeting men you would never consider, or picking men who end up hurting you. 

They' act interested and then disappear.

They're boring or don't live up to your expectations.

They want to have fun with you and sleep with you, but they won't commit and make you a priority. 

Maybe you’ve all but given up on looking for love, figuring you’ll never find Him anyway.

I’m sure you’ve tried all kinds of ways to figure out how to find Your One.

I'm going to give this painfully straight right now:

This continuous cycle of falling for men who don't return your feelings...or the opting out of dating all-together...

it’s not about the men, girlfriend... It’s all about YOU. (And that's the GOOD NEWS! It means you are 100% in control of changing it!) 

Now imagine knowing exactly how to SPOT and CHOOSE your special man...like Shari.

(She finally learned that WE are the pickers!)

I know that without Bobbi’s expert, loving, guidance I would still be getting my heart broken by all the wrong guys instead of spending my life with a man who absolutely loves and adores me. 
Before working with Bobbi, I had no problem meeting men, just not the right kind of man. Disappointed and heartbroken for 7 years, it seemed like I could never meet the kind of man who wanted a long term relationship, was thoughtful of me, was someone I could trust, or who would make a great husband.

With Bobbi’s coaching and thought provoking questions, I gained the confidence I was missing. Best of all, I learned to let go of my “list”.  Joe and I have been together for years now, and without Bobbi I would not have recognized him as my perfect match. He invites me to feel all the feelings I’ve fantasized about, and more!

Bobbi’s coaching gave me a new perspective and changed my life forever. ~ Shari

After just 2 weeks of Fix Your Man-Picker training you will have love-changing new feelings and experiences.

You will...

Stop wasting time on the wrong guys and start making good choices that you can be proud of (like you already do in the rest of your life).
Stop second-guessing yourself whenever you fall for a guy, wondering if you're going to make the same dreadful mistakes again. (You won't after you finish this workshop!) 
See the signs of a potential mate right away so you know when to pay attention or when to run; whether online or in person.
Get crystal clear about the type of man and relationship that will make you happy at this stage of your life. (Hint: it’s waaayyy different than when you were 25.)
Stop waiting for some fantasy man to show up and start seeing good men all around you. 
Let the “mistakes of relationships past” stop haunting you and holding you back from choosing the right men.
Stop feeling hurt, confused and bothered by the wrong guys….so you can start feeling understood, safe and special with relationship-minded, grownup men.
TRUST YOURSELF to choose men who won't hurt you and will make you happy for the rest of your life!

There are a lot of things that go into a successful, relationship, but when you start with picking the wrong man...honestly, I can't help you.   

Instead of trying to change a man into something you WISH he would be, how about starting by choosing a man who already makes you feel safe, special and loved?

Stop choosing users, losers or no one.  Start picking men who make you happy.

A 3-part LIVE virtual workshop exclusively for grownup women.  

May 2, May 9 and May 16, 2017
6 pm PDT / 9 pm EDT

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Participate from anywhere in the world via your computer.
Attend live or watch the replays. 

Here is how the program works:
Almost 4 hours of live training PLUS Q&A

During three 75-minute live, interactive training and coaching sessions, you will learn a new way to see and judge men that has literally changed the lives of hundreds of women.

​​​​​​​You will have a chance to get your specific questions answered and benefit from hearing from other women who are sharing your challenges and feelings.  
Real-life  skills practice with  support

Adults learn when they can quickly apply new information. It's important that you have the opportunity to apply what you learn to your real life.

Independent activities provided between sessions give you that chance; as well as the chance to debrief your experiences and get my expert personalized feedback to help you continue on your path to picking your fabulous man.  
In-Depth Training Guides &  Exercises

There is going to be a lot of new information coming your way...not to mention new perspectives that can rock your freaking love life. You won't miss anything when you use your support guide for each session to follow along, complete the interactive exercises, and keep your personal notes. You will also have this reference to go back to whenever you need a pick-me-up or reminder of what you now know.  
Ditch the victim-y feeling that you are at the mercy of men and discover what you've been missing all along - that you can be the one who chooses the man you want. 

Uncover how you are making decisions today and how those decisions are leading you to heartbreak and/or loneliness,

Understand the SCIENCE behind why you're attracted to the men you are, how that stands in the way of your joy and how to overcome your urges using your smarts and grownup life experience.  

Learn how to shift your judgments of men based on what makes you happy, and use that wisdom to start creating your new, life-changing grownup list of must-haves. 
Perfect your list of must-have feelings that you'll use to easily guide you to choices that lead you to happiness...forever!  (No more wasting time, second-guessing or settling for less than a man who adds joy to your life!)

Know the real-life experiences to expect and look for that tell you clearly whether he's a man with great potential or one you should run from screaming.   

Become an expert online profile picker by learning what to look for in a man's profile that tells you he's worth some of your time or not to waste a minute.    


Learn what good men really want so you finally understand why you're attracting the wrong men (or none at all), and what it really takes to attract the RIGHT grownup ones. (And now you'll know how to spot them!)

With the negativity ditched about what men want, see how you can be the woman high-quality men are searching for...just by being more of yourself. (You're going to be surprised to learn this.)

Create an actionable, personalized 60-day plan to get you out in the world having fun, meeting and choosing new, exciting, grownup men. (With my help, of course!)

AND you get this powerful bonus training and support...
Learn Why You Attract Jerks

“Why Smart Women Attract Jerks and How to Stop It”
In this unreleased webcast I teach what it is about YOU that continually attracts jerks users and narcissists.
And, more importantly, what YOU can do to easily spot them, dump them and move on quickly with your heart and self-esteem firmly intact. On to someone who deserves all you have to give.
Answers to Why He Didn't Call

My eBook Why He Didn't Call and Why It's Not Your Fault: 3 Simple Tips So You Can Stop Obsessing and Get On With Finding Your One.  Finally understand the age old mystery of why men act interested and then don't call. (Arrrgh!!) Also get my five must-do’s that, when followed, you will never have to ask "what did I do wrong?" after a date again!   
Private, Secret  Community 

Fix Your Man-Picker is a highly interactive workshop. You won't just be listening to me lecture. Your experience will be heightened by the participation of members of our group as they share their experiences, challenges and steps forward. I will be in the group supporting you and cheering you on. 

Access Live Sessions, Replays and all Course Materials from Anywhere Anytime...for a Lifetime!
Workshop sessions are conducted over the Internet so you can join us from anywhere that has a decent connection. Use your laptop, tablet or smartphone. You can even call in using a telephone, but you'll miss the presentation.

If you can't attend live, the replays will be available the morning after each live session completes. 

Access the all course support and automatically get any updates made to the program...for life!  

Your investment for this comprehensive, interactive, life-changing experience

is only $197

30-day "There's No Risk"Guarantee
In the highly unlikely event, after attending and participating in the first two sessions of this program, you believe what you learn will not help you see men in a new, different and more positive way...and help you choose better quality men, we will refund your investment, no hassle or hard feelings. 

Do You Know A Good Man When You See Him?
Sister, you can lose your unwanted weight, have the strongest self-esteem, have the most awesome online profile...

I could even put you in a room with 100 attractive single men with excellent partner potential...

and IF YOU DON'T KNOW THIS ONE THING YOU'LL LEARN in Fix Your Man Picker...you are likely to still end up unhappily single...or with that guy who makes you feel crappy about yourself and about men.

I get it! I can't count the men that I fell hard for when I was single, who made me feel like my heart was breaking. I lived the “the men I want never want me” story over and over...for decades.   

Most men I liked never even noticed I was alive. Others stuck with me for a time (aka we had affairs)...but they always ended up disappearing or dumping me.

Over and over. 

That feeling -- the one when you realize another potential relationship has bit the dust - it's hard to do anything but believe that you are unlovable and destined to stay single.


I fell for men who never called me again. The occasional times (I thought) a man picked me, I ended up dumped or ghosted.

I went through a lot of hating men, and myself. 

​​​​​​What changed my life forever? I finally realized that I was giving my heart and pinning my hopes on one wrong man after another.

My 18-year old was picking boys.

I learned how to appreciate and choose men who actually made me happy.  Then I picked this guy. :) 

How about you?

Do you feel like the few men you find that you like either aren't interested or they end up dissing you or disappearing? 

Do you feel like you have to twist like a pretzel to get the men you like to notice you and want you?

Do you stay with men who make you feel great when you're with them, but when you're not you feel insecure and confused?

Do you feel like you have no idea how to spot a man who could truly make you HAPPY???

Are you hanging back or putting up a wall to avoid making the same bad decisions you've made in the past? 

Don’t worry. If your answers are yes, there’s nothing wrong with you and you are not alone.

It’s just that your “man-picker” is broken.
That's where I was a dozen years ago, and it's true of SO many otherwise smart women.  

Isn't it about time we get to fixing that? I can do this for you! 
Fix Your Man-Picker...
and Find Real Love
Stop choosing users and losers.
Start picking men who make you happy.

ONLY $197
Women With Fixed Pickers Who Have Gone On To Find Real Love  
"There’s NO WAY I would have given him a chance prior to working with Bobbi."
Before working with Bobbi, I was feeling incredibly stuck. I'd been divorced for 3 years and fumbled around with online dating for about 6 months without success. My lack of success made me feel like I couldn't ever find love.

Best part is, I am now in a relationship with a wonderful man that I met online. There’s NO WAY I would have given him a chance prior to working with Bobbi. While my boyfriend isn't that GQ "shiny" man that my 18-year-old self was looking for, he is the best guy for me! He supports me in ways I’ve never experienced before, we have a strong foundation of similar faith, and we meet each other’s needs – everything that really matters to me.

Bobbi helped open my eyes to be able to see what would really make me happy. And it's him! 

UPDATE: I want you to know how much you have been a great impact to my life. Lance and I looked at engagement rings today! We are planning our wedding for summer 2017. I would never have seen the amazing man Lance is without your guidance.I learned so much about myself and about what I wanted in a man as a result of working with you through your 6-Step System. Thank you for such an amazing gift. See you at my wedding! Happy days, ~ Jeannette T, 46
"Much to my surprise and when I least expected it, "C" has touched my heart."
I asked many questions and he didn't hesitate to answer any of them.  The confidence I got from my work with Bobbi helped me recognize a fantastic guy – I almost passed him by, but Bobbi helped me to see that he was a good match for me. Outdoorsy, loves the performing arts, makes me feel safe AND we have great, honest conversations. Without Bobbi I would have missed the opportunity with this great man! 

Last weekend we decided to be exclusive and are both resigning our memberships on Match. In the last couple of weeks started introducing each other to our friends.  My closest friends like him a lot.  "The best man for me that they have ever met" they said. Wow, after all these years. And all thanks to you, Bobbi!   ~~ Anne
"It was you who helped me see clearly who I am as a woman and what I wanted in a man."
Hi Bobbi! It was largely because of you and your guidance that I met my husband online through Plenty of Fish. You guided our group through the process of clearly defining who we were and what we were looking for. With that clarity, I was able to push away the cobwebs and know with more certainty what was important to me.

In January of 2016, I was going to the beach and asked him if he wanted to accompany me, just to have a pleasant outing. He said yes and, as I got to know him, our pleasant acquaintance became a romantic relationship.

I noticed that when I decided to marry him, the decision was made with both my head and my heart. We are as in love and committed as ever, and our first year wedding anniversary is coming up in May. So thank you because you definitely helped make all of this happen. It was you who helped me see clearly who I am as a woman and what I wanted in a man. Much love to you
Stop Settling for Forever-Single or Mr. Right Now and Start Attracting Mr. Perfect For You
You can find dating advice just about anywhere. But my coaching is different. I won’t waste your time with advice that only works for 20 and 30 somethings. You have unique challenges and I know them all too well. 

I get what you're going through and WHY you're going through it...like no other dating coach does. I made so many bad moves and stupid decisions about men over the 30 years I dated, that I questioned myself constantly.

I turned it around on the men I met, when it really was about me. I was embarrassed about making bad choices and silly mistakes – especially since I did it over and over.

Instead of reaching out for help, I kept doing the same thing: not dating for years at a time...then jumping back in and picking the leavers and narcissists. And all along I blamed men and expected them to change.

Once I figured out the common denominator to all of this craziness was ME, I worked with a therapist (no dating coaches at the time) to fix MY picker. Within months I met Larry, and 6 months later he made me a first time bride at the age of 47.

That was 2006 and we are happier than ever.

You see how making this shift brought me so much happiness. And you see just a few of the women I've helped find their Mr. Perfect For Me. 

So, don't wait. Join me and start choosing men with your Grownup Mind instead of your 25 year-old fluttering heart. The difference it will make in your life will astound and delight you. 

Be Good to Yourself, 
P.S. All the advice, tips, techniques and game-changing information in this virtual workshop is geared exclusively for women like you. Women who are over 40, smart and living the good life, but desiring their own grownup love story. Like I said, you have unique challenges...and also unique advantages. I can't wait to bring you in on the SECRET!

P.P.S. Really when you think about it... who better to guide you to success than someone who has “been there, done that?” Someone who tells it like it is, with a ton of compassion and just the right amount of tough love. Don't waste any more time, ok? Take action so you can start getting on with your Love Life. 
Fix Your Man-Picker & Find Real Love
Stop choosing users and losers.
Start picking men who make you happy.